Excuse me for giving my opinion, but your site appears to be just a long rant about you getting burned on some wheels ...while the target phrase you're going after seems to indicate a local automobile dealership in North York, Ontario.
I really dislike having to say this, but in all honesty your website will never make any money, gain any recognition, nor will any worthwhile webmaster desire to link with a website consisting only of few complaints by local car buyers there in Canada.
Don't you think it would just be best to move on with your life to a more worthwhile goal ...that is, rather than continuing to dwell in the past over an unfortunate vehicle purchase? ...it's not beneficial to your well being.
Okay, so much for personal advice ...on to your questions.
Getting links to your site can sometimes be tricky ...by that I mean you'll have to provide some incentive for other webmasters to link to you ...usually this is accomplished via a reciprocal link trade where you would create a links page and solicit webmasters to trade links (w/your site).
Another way to acquire inbounds (links to your site) is to submit your website to web directories, or in your case specialty directories dealing with the auto industry. Don't be tempted to get links from just anywhere ...make sure the site or page (where your link is to reside) is about your industry/site topic.
...forget getting links from forums ...they're not gonna help much at all ...and yes I've seen your sig links in other GMAC forums, etc. talking about your messed up car deal from November 15, 2003. None of this will help ...you've got to get down in the mud and get your hands dirty ...you've go to do some real SEO & webmastery work ...there ain't no narrow cuts.
You did create the text link in your example above correctly though ...fine job.
As for how to see which of your keywords are more popular than others, how many times they were searched last month (across the overture network, NOT Google) and to get additional suggestions for search terms associated with your gig, simply try:
http://inventory.overture.com/d/sear...ry/suggestion/
Also JS has a helpful tutorial right here on the forums you could read for more detailed info:
http://www.v7n.com/forums/showthread.php?t=7773
I hope I haven't been too hard on you kiddo ...I apologize if I've hurt your feelings ...I just want you to know that doing all this web work is very involved and time consuming ...I'd like to see you become involved in a more productive field, rather than spending too much of your valuable energy on a lost cause ...believe me, there are FAR more important issues to address in today's uncertain world.
In any regard, I admire your desire to help others.
...best of luck to you.
jb