the problem was with another page:
http://www.loreleiweb.com/free_web_h...ory/index.html
the link titles were bold and next to them i had adsense, they looked very much the same and hence visitors did not notice it... so, adsense complain was that i am formatting neighboring content to accompany the ads, which is stupid yet again, because sooo many do it. dont know what triggered them.
anyway, if i email them and ask about these two URL i posted in the first post, and ask if the ads placement is fine, and they would say it isn't... wont they banned be because it has already been online like this for about 2 weeks and generated some clicks?