Hi,
You should use: google search "www.yourwebsite.com" to see in webpages contains that information.
For instance: for
http://www.nfldraftdog.com/ use
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q...raftdog.com%22
you can see listings in goguides and joant, which don't show with
http://www.google.com/search?q=link:...tdog.com&hl=en
It usually takes several months for the link operator to update and see the backlinks in google.
@SAB, I'm sure you're listings in botw and alive are crawled by google, other method is to check the cached page which your listing is on.