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Originally Posted by digiweb
Bonnie - can I ask you some questions? Because there is hope in naming the problem. By identifying and naming the problem you can overcome it.
First q: Do you idealize or devalue your partners, if so, is it an intense, uncontrollable behavior or just a random thing?
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digiweb, well, good question, neither things, I just need to BE with someone...I dont idealize or devalue anyone, I take them the way they are, but when for some reason we go apart, I need to find someone else to be with cause if I don't I feel myself physically (and mentally) very bad - I have terrible headached, heartaches, etc and etc .... thats very weird and I dont know why it is so and as soon as I find someone - all these awful symptoms disappear (and its not the matter of sex or something like this - I need just to be with someone (but sex is always welcome of course - nothing bad about it
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and thanks for trying to help me - I fel you are a really good person!