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Originally Posted by John Scott
Well, let's see. I was slapped. I didn't draw a line. I was strangled with a cord. I didn't draw a line. I was punched. I didn't draw a line. I was stabbed in the chest, and I drew a line.
So it looks like the parties to the relationship draw the line, and not some arbitrary strangers who want to force their values on others.
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Man, sorry to hear you went through that. I had a rough relationships long ago when I was younger but nothing like that!
About your point on parties to the relationship deciding. Reminds me of how morals are dictated by the social structure you come from, which is why what is moral in one time and place is not in another ... and which is why primates have morals in effect, it being a negative to steal for example. Apes will go out and seek to exact justice on thieves!