Posting your questions doesn't make you (or anyone else who has questions) look stupid. It's the only way you're going to learn.

If you don't ask, you'll never know, right? Once you learn how to SSH into your server and learn how to do things by the command line, you'll see just how easy it is and you'll be doing it all the time.
You can get a free ssh client (PuTTY) at:
http://www.chiark.greenend.org.uk/~sgtatham/putty/
Once you have it installed:
1. Open PuTTY.
2. Connect to your server:
# ssh username@IPAddressHere
Log in as your Primary User, enter your password when prompted for a password.
3. Once you are logged in, you should see this:
[username@hostname username] $
4. Su to root:
# su -
Type in the root password when prompted for a password.
5. If you su'ed successfully, your prompt should look like this now:
[root@hostname root] #
Then you type:
# vi /usr/local/apache/conf/httpd.conf
Find the line that I mentioned above and follow the steps in my previous post from there.
Anytime you have a question about what you're doing with your server or how to do something with it, you can ask me anytime and I'll be more than happy to help you. You can also shoot me a quick PM and I'll send you my e-mail address so you can ask me through there as well (since I'm not around here as much as I'd like to be).
