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Old 03-30-2009, 11:03 AM
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have you been backstab by your friend?

...Tell us about it so we can get some moral lessons from your experience...

>Well I'm so lucky to have a 2 best friend..They're my friend since childhood until now...we understand each other and they accepted me for who I am..
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Old 03-30-2009, 11:43 AM
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^Yup. I treated her as my friend but I heard her telling my friends bad things about me...
How awfull do you think that is huh??? To be backstabbed by a person you're considering as your friend.... I tell you, it's horrible!!!

Moral lesson: Don't tag a person as your FRIEND that easily. It takes time, a lot of time...
 
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Old 03-30-2009, 01:14 PM
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yay...thats bad...Thats why its hard for me to trust other people..
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Old 03-30-2009, 03:19 PM
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backstabbed?yah..A LOT!anyways, i admit i did it too..but not to my real friends..but to someone i know who also backstabs me..and all the fronting posing as a friend...hate that...typically im a backstabber to a backstabber..
 
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I'm very careful of choosing friends. No one has back stabbed me yet, but if anyone does, surely it's none of my friends, but a person, who's trying to be.
 
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Lucky you have 2 good friends. I did not get back stabbed by friends buy side stepped by many friends. Now I am no more friendly to them.

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...Tell us about it so we can get some moral lessons from your experience...

>Well I'm so lucky to have a 2 best friend..They're my friend since childhood until now...we understand each other and they accepted me for who I am..
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It happens a lot. It is nothing new, and serious. But it happens a lot.
 
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No one has back stabbed me yet, but if anyone does, surely it's none of my friends, but a person, who's trying to be.
well said..short but brief...a true and real friend wont be doing it while your off-guard..instead if they feel like saying something very personal or hurtful..they would say it in your face straight up.
and that's showing some love not hate..
 
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i feel it everyday, so be sure that you get a better friend
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Old 03-31-2009, 12:17 AM
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Many times. But from what I've experience, I just laughed on these 'people'. I guess it's part of growing up - Meeting new people, making new friends, trusting them, hurting you, leaving you, reconcile or forget they exists.

I will treasure you as a friend, I'll fight for you, I'll accept your criticisms but make sure you promise me to be true to yourself because in time, no one will ever believe in you again -- trust me.

Friendship is a give and take relationship. I cannot say that I am a victim of backstabbing, but i shall say that -these people do no good than gossiping to other people and that's a habit, Love yourself and it'll take time to trust other people.

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I don't know if I'm backstab or what? But I really accept their criticism if I'm a victim of a "backstabbing case". It's my way to learn and to improve myself to be a "better man" I guess.
 
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Old 03-31-2009, 05:22 AM
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no... not yet... but if they do that to me well they've mess with the wrong person....
 
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not yet, And I don't want that to happen right now I have many friends and even A fight we just settle it wisely to prevent any misunderstanding.
 
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Old 03-31-2009, 06:27 PM
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Luckily I haven't been backstab by any of my friends. But I always know what it feels to be backstab by people that don't even know you well. Plus, my aunt is a certified backstabber. She even talks about her bestfriend behind her back. That's why I'm irritated at people of sort.
it really shocks me how youre so assured that havent been backstabbed even once..

the reality is..backstabbing can be considered or categorized on different levels....

one of which and primarily the worst of its kind is the hate backstab - (the sick people who hit you behind the back for the purpose of destruction)..

there's also this buzz backstab - (the people who talks about you,if you ever had a "showbiz" gossip or intriguing news regarding you bein involved..) it maybe not of bigger deal if ever you knew..since the degree of the backstabbing isnt worth to be noticed..but still, its was talked about behind your back..either way its a backstab..

to enlighten you more on my point ill give an example:

lets say you told a story about a friend of yours regarding your gf/bf cheating on you,and needed some explanation and support why it happened.. then your friend told you about her/his cousin is a cheater also and tells his/her cousin's story about the cheating he/she did..would you consider it backstabbing for the part of your friend on his/her cousin???YES..
but it was used to help you out understand more of the situation your going through..

imo, everyone has been backstabbed at least once..i mean where living on the same planet where "backstabbing" is a practice that always happen.. i mean we do feed off from news, right? we love to hear stories..we also love to tell stories.. to learn, adopt and prepare..

so i think its impossible..i mean insane to say nobody in here wasnt backstabbed even once in their life. since there are lot of kind of backstab.. it just happened that the word backstab was defined more on the higher degree by us most of the time..
plus we never know what the people surrounding us are doing 24/7.

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no ,If I find my friends backstab me, I can not trust them like before forever,
 
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Old 04-01-2009, 07:13 AM
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When someone backstabbed me, for sure, I would avoid them forever.
 
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Old 04-01-2009, 03:18 PM
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Well you said it yourself... You won't know if someone backstab you! But in your first definition, I think it's called "chismis" or gossip. In my own definition backstab is when your friend talks something really bad behind your back. But everyone has their own definition about it, so I'll respect your reply.
respect back..we all have our own definitions..i guess..
 
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i had good friends in the office where i am working right now, and it's good that don't experience backs tab from one of them
 
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I dont think so... I am sure that we are guilty of it a little though.
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