What is your first approach when courting?

[Dylan55]

Originally Posted by StrongInTheArm

Dylan: The answer to your question is, you are the one that has made a mistake.

Firstly by assuming that this thread belongs to you because you started it, it does not. It belongs to us all at V7N! But more specifically it belongs to the owner of this site. Don't be possessive.

Secondly by being rude to another member, I refer you to the rules:

Thirdly, you have been here long enough to know how threads work in the lobby, we go off tangent and we make jokes, that is what the Lobby is about.

Fourthly, you are not a moderator. If you have a problem with a post please report it and allow the moderators and admins to resolve the issue.

To be clear, PCTec has done nothing wrong in this instance!

(On a personal note, I would add that I think you owe him an apology, but that is between you and your conscience).

Ok. I agree that I have my mistake. But the question is, who triggered out this issue? who starts the issue and let me go for my mistake?

What is your first approach when courting?
I start by being very respectful to the judge!

Laughter is the best medicine... Do you have any ailments?

Let say, If you are ME... Don't you react on this matter?

I'll do my apology for my mistake. But I take this part of my apology to all V7N members who read this thread not for PCTec.
Can I have a request to be fair enough for me and for PCTec. What if let all the V7N members react on this issue? Let us know from them who are wrong between me and PCTec. This is only a request sir. Permit it and let other member decide for it. I think that's fair enough to judge who commit the mistake. Though, I accept my mistake but let's figure out who starts the mess.

Moderator is Intelligent and always in between. I don't want to think that there's a bias judgment here. So, let all the members of V7N decide for this issue.

I'll accept my mistake if he accept his mistake. That's it.

As I read the rules and regulations Cricket says in the first part of quality posting;
"Actually read the thread before responding, not just the title. Take time to read through the responses too."

In my title: Courting means

Courtship is the traditional dating period before engagement and marriage. During a courtship, a couple dates to get to know each other and decide if there will be an engagement. Usually courtship is a public affair, done in public and with family approval.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Courting

How come that PCTec posted relevant answer to the thread? Isn't his post not a mistake?

Firstly by assuming that this thread belongs to you because you started it, it does not. It belongs to us all at V7N! But more specifically it belongs to the owner of this site. Don't be possessive.

I'm not assuming the thread belongs to me and its my own. The word "my Thread" doesn't mean that you own the thread. In English language as I do learned in my course. English word can be use in different way and it can be defined in another thoughts and meaning. So, what I mean in "My thread" is define as "my post". So it means that it was shown to all V7n members and let them answer in relevant way not in irrelevant way. If I mean its my own, no one can answer on that because it was close immediately.

Secondly by being rude to another member, I refer you to the rules:

There's no rude in this thread. I know this is a family thread. There's no culpable act or words that I've posted. Only rude minds of the reader can think it was rude but the structure of words are not rude.

Thirdly, you have been here long enough to know how threads work in the lobby, we go off tangent and we make jokes, that is what the Lobby is about.

Yes, I'm aware of cracking joke here in the lobby but there's an exception. Forum lobby is for all thought and all what we think. Forum Lobby is for all emotions. Forum Lobby is for all things. But in all things, not all necessary manner are go for right thing. Let say, when you are in the serious forum and talking about serious matter. In Good , Is it good to interrupt the conversation in out of the topic words? I know you are aware sir.

Fourthly, you are not a moderator. If you have a problem with a post please report it and allow the moderators and admins to resolve the issue.

Yes, I know that sir. I'm here as a member and still respecting all the superior here. But if I can't explain my side, how about the respect of other members to me? Reacting is not bad. I'm here sir to react and explain my side in order to gain a respect. I didn't mean to react in you. I respect you sir. Let this thing be resolve with the reaction of other members. That's it. Thank you. God Bless.

[StrongInTheArm]

Fish!

Give her a big, juicy, fresh fish.

It says, "I love you", like nothing else. It also says, I know where fish are and I can catch fish, (or at least buy fish!). She'll be ecstatic and all over you in no time.

It is also a good secret test to see if she can cook and is willing to share food with you! Once you give her the fish, she has to invite you to her place so she can cook the fish for you. Devious huh!

If she doesn't invite you to share the fish, or if it tastes awful, then dump her quick, she is not the girl for you.

If she leaves all the bones in the fish, then she probably hates you, so be warned, run, run I say!!!

[juliensimon]

Originally Posted by StrongInTheArm

Fish!

Give her a big, juicy, fresh fish.

It says, "I love you", like nothing else. It also says, I know where fish are and I can catch fish, (or at least buy fish!). She'll be ecstatic and all over you in no time.

It is also a good secret test to see if she can cook and is willing to share food with you! Once you give her the fish, she has to invite you to her place so she can cook the fish for you. Devious huh!

If she doesn't invite you to share the fish, or if it tastes awful, then dump her quick, she is not the girl for you.

If she leaves all the bones in the fish, then she probably hates you, so be warned, run, run I say!!!

How about the smell Strongy?

I guess it could be a tactic to disguise another

[StrongInTheArm]

Originally Posted by juliensimon

How about the smell Strongy?

I guess it could be a tactic to disguise another

I did say fresh fish! There shouldn't be too much of a smell.

[pctec]

Well Mr. Dylan55

I honestly thought we were having a bit of playful banter back and fourth but am evidently wrong(as I am in many cases these days). As a result, I will leave you, and your thread alone. I do hope you find the answer regarding courting you seek...

[Dylan55]

Originally Posted by pctec

Well Mr. Dylan55

I honestly thought we were having a bit of playful banter back and fourth but am evidently wrong(as I am in many cases these days). As a result, I will leave you, and your thread alone. I do hope you find the answer regarding courting you seek...

Ok buddy. There's no problem about that. I'm friendly man. Sorry if I posted something insulted but let's know and learn into our mistakes. Not all thread are pretty good in cracking joke because we have different emotions and we have different races too. Yes, let's accept that we have both mistakes. And we mean it. Cheers bro...

[juliensimon]

Quote:
Originally Posted by pctec
Well Mr. Dylan55

I honestly thought we were having a bit of playful banter back and fourth but am evidently wrong(as I am in many cases these days). As a result, I will leave you, and your thread alone. I do hope you find the answer regarding courting you seek...

Originally Posted by Dylan55

Ok buddy. There's no problem about that. I'm friendly man. Sorry if I posted something insulted but let's know and learn into our mistakes. Not all thread are pretty good in cracking joke because we have different emotions and we have different races too. Yes, let's accept that we have both mistakes. And we mean it. Cheers bro...

Now that's the spirit! It just starting from a misunderstanding I believe and got handle like gentlemen. Good job guys, for not blowing this out of proportion and staying friendly.

Now let's do this thread some justice and get back on topic.


I'll start with my answer:

I used to court women (I'm married) with humour. It was my technique, not very original you will say but I tend to make lame joke when I feel uncomfortable and courting women was definitely out of my comfort zone.

[Dylan55]

I used to court women (I'm married) with humour. It was my technique, not very original you will say but I tend to make lame joke when I feel uncomfortable and courting women was definitely out of my comfort zone.

Humor is pretty cool. I want to keep my mode into perfect humor but sometimes I can't go over with perfect humor because I'm silent-type guy. For what I can do is heart to heart talk.

[grishamist]

As a contributing member on this forum, I think you are bias for taking a blissful step of taking Dylan to a situation like this. As we all know, as well as the first timers, as well as the contributing member, as well as the mentors, and as well as the moderators, when you are asking a question that is not a joke, would you reply a joke? No of course. Is this what you call justice?

Originally Posted by pctec

Laughter is the best medicine... Do you have any ailments?

So Mr. StrongInTheArm, Is this post can't be consider insulting?

I know that you're doing your job as a moderator of this forum but is not a valid reason that you are making jokes on every thread. Thinking what may be the reaction of some lurkers here on this forum. Do you think it's healthy for this forum to have a new member for that reason of yours? Do you think people may have an interest to register here if you have this kind of attitude?

Post quality reply because the starter of the thread and the reply of the members are relevant to the topic. That's my side as a part of this thread.

[Kembelar]

hmmmm.... i think Cricket stated on the forum rules that we should read the title of the thread as long as the responses on it.... i think there are a lot of post about "Courting" are there before "PCtec" post his none sense post...i think we can call it "Rudeness", posting an irrelevant answer....

[technophobic]

I think we should exercise common good on every post on the thread. Respect the topic given on a certain thread. Its ok to crack joke once in a while but we should analyze the mood, whether they are serious about it or not.

[phoenix06007]

Yes, I know that sir. I'm here as a member and still respecting all the superior here. But if I can't explain my side, how about the respect of other members to me? Reacting is not bad. I'm here sir to react and explain my side in order to gain a respect. I didn't mean to react in you. I respect you sir. Let this thing be resolve with the reaction of other members. That's it. Thank you. God Bless.

I honestly thought we were having a bit of playful banter back and fourth but am evidently wrong(as I am in many cases these days). As a result, I will leave you, and your thread alone. I do hope you find the answer regarding courting you seek...

Dylan: The answer to your question is, you are the one that has made a mistake.

Firstly by assuming that this thread belongs to you because you started it, it does not. It belongs to us all at V7N! But more specifically it belongs to the owner of this site. Don't be possessive.

it always takes two to tango, meaning Dylan is not the only one that commit mistake here PCtec too.

[StrongInTheArm]

Originally Posted by Dylan55

Yes. We are all aware on that. Cricket is always have the last word. Cricket is the God of V7N.

No, she is the Administrator.

[Dylan55]

Originally Posted by StrongInTheArm

No, she is the Administrator.

Yes Sir. I know. As I've said English Word cannot only mean in its typical meaning and structure. We can use it in different way which depends on the usage of the word in the sentence. Let's turn out into this, Administrator is the highest position, God is in highest position, So, we can use the word God as a synonym of Administrator. Cheers bro.

[StrongInTheArm]

No I don't think we can go around calling whoever we like God. Religious people would object quite vehemently to you calling them or any other human being God.

Synonym

a word with the same meaning as another word in the same language

Administrator and God do not have the same meaning.
Cheers Sis!

[phoenix06007]

hey Dylan when you are courting a girl you should admit your flaws. and don't be so shallow when it comes to thinking.

[technophobic]

Administrator

Part of Speech: noun
Definition:person who manages organization

Synonyms:CEO, ambassador, authority, boss, bureaucrat, captain, chair, chairperson, chief, commander, consul, controller, custodian, dean, director, exec, executive, front office, governor, head, head honcho, head person, inspector, judge, leader, manager, mayor, minister, officer, official, organizer, overseer, person upstairs, premier, president, prez, producer, superintendent, supervisor

God
Part of Speech: noun
Definition:supernatural being worshiped by people

Synonyms:Absolute Being, All Knowing, All Powerful, Allah, Almighty, Creator, Divine Being, Father, God, Holy Spirit, Infinite Spirit, Jah, Jehovah, King of Kings, Lord, Maker, Yahweh, daemon, deity, demigod, demon, divinity, holiness, idol, master, numen, omnipotent, power, prime mover, providence, soul, spirit, totem, tutelary, universal life force, world spirit

[StrongInTheArm]

Might I add showing a little maturity as well!

[phoenix06007]

yeah a little maturity is one good factor in courting, and another factor is do not use your supremacy when you are courting a girl.

[Dylan55]

Originally Posted by phoenix06007

yeah a little maturity is one good factor in courting, and another factor is do not use your supremacy when you are courting a girl.

Going back to the TOPIC
Yes, I agree on that Phoenix. Maturity is the best factor to consider in courting. So, using of supremacy is type of immaturity in courting right? What if you don't have the position or supremacy, maybe no one can be your partner. Well, there's a case for that, Using of supremacy in courting or forcing a girl to love you is serious case. You might be in jail.