What is your first approach when courting?

[phoenix06007]

Originally Posted by Dylan55

Going back to the TOPIC
Yes, I agree on that Phoenix. Maturity is the best factor to consider in courting. So, using of supremacy is type of immaturity in courting right? What if you don't have the position or supremacy, maybe no one can be your partner. Well, there's a case for that, Using of supremacy in courting or forcing a girl to love you is serious case. You might be in jail.

Yeah i agree to that too. if you are in a position do not use your authority, and show your power to the girl, just to earn her respect and love.

[faye valentine]

Supremacy in courting? You're just courting a girl and not forcing and obliging the girl to be with you for as long as you like.

its a big turn off! You're on a bad beat.

[grishamist]

Originally Posted by faye valentine

Supremacy in courting? You're just courting a girl and not forcing and obliging the girl to be with you for as long as you like.

its a big turn off! You're on a bad beat.

That's why I don't believe in courtship...

Anyways you're right, it's a big turn off for a woman like you. Supremacy in courting may have a negative effect like abusing your advantage to the girl you're courting and that's not a proper thing to do.

All I know is "Be yourself"...

[faye valentine]

Originally Posted by grishamist

That's why I don't believe in courtship...

Anyways you're right, it's a big turn off for a woman like you. Supremacy in courting may have a negative effect like abusing your advantage to the girl you're courting and that's not a proper thing to do.

All I know is "Be yourself"...

Yeah, i have also a doubt about courting.... Its just like this, (don't worry i am not pertaining to all you guys, but that's my opinion) for me, when a guy courts a girl, a guy usually show his "goodness" by being mushy for example but then in the latter part, they'll show who they are.

[grishamist]

Originally Posted by faye valentine

Yeah, i have also a doubt about courting.... Its just like this, (don't worry i am not pertaining to all you guys, but that's my opinion) for me, when a guy courts a girl, a guy usually show his "goodness" by being mushy for example but then in the latter part, they'll show who they are.

Yeah! That's true. Showing the angel side and waiting for the right time to reveal the true identity...

[phoenix06007]

Originally Posted by grishamist

Yeah! That's true. Showing the angel side and waiting for the right time to reveal their true identity...

most of the time it's true, but not all guys tends to hide their true identity to their loved interest.the truth is you can be yourself on the courting stage, but it's all up to the guy how he will do it.

[faye valentine]

Originally Posted by grishamist

Yeah! That's true. Showing the angel side and waiting for the right time to reveal their true identity...

Yep! Maybe for some, courting is a sweet part of "getting-to-know-each-other" moments, that's not work for me. Well i guess that's me, hate it or love it!

[phoenix06007]

the fact is you can still court the girl without telling her.

[grishamist]

Originally Posted by phoenix06007

the fact is you can still court the girl without telling her.

I don't know if there is a term "Unofficial Courting" but it may have a connection on your reply.

Thinking:
How do you consider yourself courting if she doesn't know that you are courting? (A weird question... )

[Dylan55]

Originally Posted by phoenix06007

the fact is you can still court the girl without telling her.

Oh, Is it like this? The Guy told his friends that a certain girl is his girlfriend. Then suddenly before the girl know it, he tell it they just broke up.

[phoenix06007]

some people who do not believe in courtship does it. their subconscious mind tell them to do things that can be considered courting, without knowing that you are already courting a girl. these things can be perceived by the girl (not telling that you are courting her)and she may think that you already doing it.

[All in 1 SEO]

Does courting really still exist in a traditional sense? I don't think so. It used to be flowers, now it is facebook gifts. Used to be going out dancing, now it is going out for a drinking competition.

When I was 'courting' my now fiance I just treated her the way I think a woman should be treated, bought her flowers, showed her some attention and was genuinely interested in her and what she wanted to do. Simple stuff like holding a door open and just giving them time goes miles!

[quentin123]

i usually try to make her laugh !

i said, try ...

[Zap]

@Dylan55: If you wanted a serious discussion about courting, then why would you even comment on PCtec's post? And why would you, then, be promoting the idea of everyone at V7N coming into this thread and voting on a matter that is not at all related to courtship?
This is confusing. If you wanted a serious discussion only about courtship, you could have ignored PCtec's post and that would have been the end of it. That would allow you to get back to serious discussion much sooner than you did.

[TeaStorm]

I will just look into her eyes, deeply, without a word until she can't stand the ardor in my eyes, she may ask:" What's wrong with u??"

Then I just answer, I don't know why, I just feel that I can't look enough of u!



What do u guys think of my idea??

[jabo]

Originally Posted by TeaStorm

I will just look into her eyes, deeply, without a word until she can't stand the ardor in my eyes, she may ask:" What's wrong with u??"

Then I just answer, I don't know why, I just feel that I can't look enough of u!



What do u guys think of my idea??

I say that is creepy...

[grishamist]

Originally Posted by TeaStorm

I will just look into her eyes, deeply, without a word until she can't stand the ardor in my eyes, she may ask:" What's wrong with u??"

Then I just answer, I don't know why, I just feel that I can't look enough of u!



What do u guys think of my idea??

You may have a future on this, mate... Another cheesy move that have a spice and humor on the side. Also add some mature lines on this statement to make it a complete hunt(to catch the girls' attention).

[micoblanco]

Originally Posted by Dylan55

Hi guys, I know we different style of courting someone. can you give your first approach when you court a girl? or for girls that courting a man?

Yep, we have our own different styles when it comes to courting. As far as my experience is concerned, I'm not fond of courting other girls in our first meeting. I mean, I mostly admire girls for their beauty especially those who have a pair Korean/Japanese-like eyes but I don't have the courage to instantly turn myself into a courting mode or something like that. I will only court a girl if I really like her and if I really want her to be in a relationship with me. Courting and flirting is two different things. Know what I mean?

As what I've always been saying, I'm not a good looking guy. I don't think that girls will like me in our first meeting (or even in second ) so I mostly stay inside my shell.

But I guess, the best way to court a girl whom you didn't know is to respectfully introduce yourself and ask her if she can spend some time with you. I'm not an expert on this but I guess that would be a nice idea, or if you and the girl of your dream know each other for quite some time, giving her some hint about what you feel will be most likely a better way rather than saying it straight but then again, it also depends on the girl and on the situation.

[grishamist]

Originally Posted by micoblanco

But I guess, the best way to court a girl whom you didn't know is to respectfully introduce yourself and ask her if she can spend some time with you. I'm not an expert on this but I guess that would be a nice idea, or if you and the girl of your dream know each other for quite some time, giving her some hint about what you feel will be most likely a better way rather than saying it straight but then again, it also depends on the girl and on the situation.

That move may be risky (50-50 perhaps). There are some situation where guys are too impulsive to "meet and court" but that may depend on the girl whether she likes you or not. The idea of giving her a hint of what you feel is not that preferable. It's like waiting for the right time to say it. But what if that girl don't like you on the first place?

[w3bmaster]

I simply told her i wanna go out with her and know her better ...