What is your first approach when courting? - Page 4

**Muddy** · 09-23-2009, 11:00 PM

I asked Zap, "Do you think a woman believes you when you tell her she is the first
girl you ever loved?"

Zap said, "Yeah, if you're the first liar she's ever met."

**Muddy** · 09-23-2009, 11:10 PM

This talk of courtship reminds me of a girl I knew who told me once, "Jack and I have parted forever."

I said, "Good gracious! What does that mean?"

She said, "Means that I'll get a five pound box of candy in about an hour!"

Dylan55 · 09-24-2009, 05:13 AM

In my first move of courtship, I look to her whole body until her attention goes to mine. Of course the girl may confront me on what I'm staring at her. Once she talk to me, its time to go for the talking mode. For what I can say is: "Miss your body is like a super Model that's why I'm attracted to you. You know, every man will stare at you once you walk in front of them. Miss, I don't have bad intention upon staring at you. If you mind I can be your friend and as sign of getting friendship with you, I offer you to have dinner tonight. Give me your contact number so that I can call you up later."

Well, this situation is in 50/50 mode or might be dangerous for stranger like me. All I can say is let your humor test its capability.

**Muddy** · 09-24-2009, 10:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Dylan55

In my first move of courtship, I look to her whole body until her attention goes to mine. Of course the girl may confront me on what I'm staring at her. Once she talk to me, its time to go for the talking mode. For what I can say is: "Miss your body is like a super Model that's why I'm attracted to you. You know, every man will stare at you once you walk in front of them. Miss, I don't have bad intention upon staring at you. If you mind I can be your friend and as sign of getting friendship with you, I offer you to have dinner tonight. Give me your contact number so that I can call you up later."

Well, this situation is in 50/50 mode or might be dangerous for stranger like me. All I can say is let your humor test its capability.

So this is a joke, right? A joke? I certainly hope so.

Dylan55 · 09-25-2009, 12:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Muddy

So this is a joke, right? A joke? I certainly hope so.

Nope. I'm not kidding. I always do that and it was effective. Well, It was effective if you have the look and sex appeal.

Don't let the girls make you as their pet.

grishamist · 09-25-2009, 03:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Dylan55

Nope. I'm not kidding. I always do that and it was effective. Well, It was effective if you have the look and sex appeal.

Don't let the girls make you as their pet.

Of course as we all know, a lot of girls are usually playing and flirting. So if you're in a making of being a pet, it's your choice. But like Dylan said, it may not happen if you're doing exactly or maybe add some flirty moves to get that girl. I don't prefer that kind of move, I'm just giving another idea to avoid being a "pet". And may I also add, "know the girl before you court".

gggorosin22 · 10-05-2009, 06:58 PM

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Originally Posted by grishamist

I will just look into her eyes, deeply, without a word until she can't stand the ardor in my eyes, she may ask:" What's wrong with u??"

Then I just answer, I don't know why, I just feel that I can't look enough of u!

What do u guys think of my idea??

There's a higher probability that the lady you're staring at, might run for her life. "Staring on someone" is more on the creepy side.."but then again"(reckon on jabo for this fave quot),it depends on the situation..maybe it could be effective if you're in a perfect romantic moment,then head for the Big kiss..anyways, im not sure...i've only seen this in movies..

i remember during my teen tenure years.. i did a few surprise kiss on some ladies..those were the times that i'm drunk and feeling itchy

..haha..lucky for me though, the few unlucky ladies surprisingly kissed back(of course during that time it never crossed my mind that they're actually kissing back, all im thinking is to make out). when i come think of it, probably they're drunk also..hehe..

scpalmetto · 09-26-2009, 07:22 PM

LOL for some of the answers here!!

Hahah, maybe I will just offer him the big diamond ring! It will make the things much easier!

Dylan55 · 09-28-2009, 06:19 AM

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Originally Posted by scpalmetto

LOL for some of the answers here!!

Hahah, maybe I will just offer him the big diamond ring! It will make the things much easier!

Oh nice thing, but that's too expensive first move. This is something like stormy courting.

wishlist · 09-29-2009, 03:29 AM

Kiss, cover her mouth!

But maybe end up with a slap on the face!

Anyway, worth trying!

Dylan55 · 09-29-2009, 05:11 AM

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Originally Posted by wishlist

Kiss, cover her mouth!

But maybe end up with a slap on the face!

Anyway, worth trying!

haha. It's okay. At least you do your first move.

**Muddy** · 09-29-2009, 09:34 AM

I fear that pornography is taking its toll upon the young people of today.

Dylan55 · 10-02-2009, 06:43 AM

Child Pornography is not new already in our society. There are lot of child being the victims of white slavery and turns into child porn and child prostitution. I think United Nation must focus on this issue in order to save more children around the world.

Do you think that courting online can cause pornography?

**Muddy** · 10-02-2009, 06:52 AM

No, I think that the objectification of females that a lot of pornography promotes can have an effect on how males treat females even during so-called courting. I notice that a rather aggressive approach seems to be favored by a number of young males. When I was your age, that kind of approach would have gotten me slapped and labeled as a creep. But things change. Sensitivities change. I'm just speculating on one of the many things that may have helped change them.

Dylan55 · 10-02-2009, 07:30 AM

All problems have solutions but it depends on our way how to solve it. You have a point there. Some Young girls are setting their selves as sex workers and they use Internet as their network of promoting their selves for the service of sex for less. We know that society affects the mind of every individuals in our surroundings. I wondering why some girls love to be a sex workers and being a porn artist. Are they not thinking? Is it because of huge money or is it because of their lust in their bodies?

With regards on this matter, there are lot of questions that needs of answers. As member of the society, we must be responsible to our surroundings and care for others. But how can you care for others if they don't care their selves? I think,in order to solve this problem, it must start in the families of the young girls who are involve in pornography. The parents must do their role as guidance for their children. Lead them to the right path not pushing them into this kind of evil job just because of having money.

Shaw05 · 10-05-2009, 08:03 AM

open with "excuse me, but have i come accross your face before?"

zeruel · 10-05-2009, 11:03 PM

I'm a bit shy at first when meeting girls and really don't instantly tell a girl how much i like her...

I wonder if anyone here ever tried to do this in real life >>> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-B2UN88qOxM

l454 · 10-07-2009, 03:43 PM

Just have to go and talk to them and not be shy. It's as easy as that.

Dylan55 · 10-09-2009, 06:03 AM

what if your personality is totally shameful guy? How can you approach a girl upon doing your first move to court her?

grishamist · 10-09-2009, 06:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Dylan55

what if your personality is totally shameful guy? How can you approach a girl upon doing your first move to court her?

If you're a shameful guy, learn to be lovable if you want to have a good relationship. Every relationship need lot of understanding and to have a patience that's long enough to resist arguments, jealousy and etc. I know that you're saying to yourself that "you're not sweet" or whatsoever reason that you have. If you love what you're doing, it's possible that you can do impossible things even changing yourself is possible.