What is your first approach when courting? - Page 6

Midwifery Sanctuary · 10-12-2009, 05:43 PM

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Originally Posted by juliensimon

don't waste your time. We won't understand them anyway.

Haha fair enough, so is there any other ladies on here or are you all blokes?

**juliensimon** · 10-12-2009, 06:40 PM

Cricket is the mother of all.

**Muddy** · 10-12-2009, 09:19 PM

Bad pickup line #12,006.

**alter-ego** · 10-12-2009, 09:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Dylan55

Hi guys, I know we different style of courting someone. can you give your first approach when you court a girl? or for girls that courting a man?

I court a woman I'm interested in by talking to her and paying attention to her over and above what I would do with anyone. I don't make it too obvious but I don't downplay it either because I think it's a waste of time to make ones intentions too muddy.

If she responds I find she will do so pretty much immediately so I continue on my course of action until we commit to some form of dating. If she doesn't respond them I'm on my way to the next gal, no harm, no foul.

Of course this has backfired as well with the ones who play "hard to get" but anyone who plays hard to get I find is hard to want as well. I'm not one of these people that believe in working hard to maintain a relationship, it either works or doesn't, the rest is time wasted.

Dylan55 · 10-16-2009, 02:15 AM

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Originally Posted by alter-ego

I court a woman I'm interested in by talking to her and paying attention to her over and above what I would do with anyone. I don't make it too obvious but I don't downplay it either because I think it's a waste of time to make ones intentions too muddy.

If she responds I find she will do so pretty much immediately so I continue on my course of action until we commit to some form of dating. If she doesn't respond them I'm on my way to the next gal, no harm, no foul.

Of course this has backfired as well with the ones who play "hard to get" but anyone who plays hard to get I find is hard to want as well. I'm not one of these people that believe in working hard to maintain a relationship, it either works or doesn't, the rest is time wasted.

This is nice move. Actually, I heard already to some men this kind of move.

Dylan55 · 10-22-2009, 07:04 AM

Be fashionated when courting someone. Give your best in your first approach no matter how worthy or worthless it is.

**Muddy** · 10-22-2009, 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Dylan55

Be fashionated when courting someone.

One time I got drunk and found everything "shimply fashionating".

**Muddy** · 10-22-2009, 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by alter-ego

...I think it's a waste of time to make ones intentions too muddy.

I agree entirely.

**robjones** · 10-22-2009, 01:35 PM

>> What is your first approach when courting?

My attorney has advised me not to answer this until the jury finishes the sentencing phase.

Dylan55 · 10-30-2009, 07:42 AM

Fun to have love online or take into serious relationship?

Dylan55 · 10-30-2009, 07:45 AM

Take time to realize what you want to have in your life. The one you love or the one who love you?

AL Jones · 10-30-2009, 12:36 PM

"Hi I'm Al and I make loads of backlinks."

Girl:What?

Me: Backlinks

Girl:Like fences?

Me: Yeah, like fences

forumer147 · 10-31-2009, 07:22 AM

I guess the first approach that you need to do is to make friend with that person and know the person well

edosauyi · 10-31-2009, 07:38 AM

Many relationships no longer start with any form of aproach, in most times it starts in a form of friendship.