unless it is actually planned...
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Originally Posted by Dirky47
If I'm on the situation. I better give my partner a tight hug and better talk about the positive things being a pregnant.
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I'd say that would be mighty irresponsible to only look at the positive sides. consider the facts that there are a lot of negative effects for an unprepared pregnancy and it is those things that actually matter and needs dealing with... some of which could lead to the postponement or even destruction of dreams. lets say that a couple is saving up for their future, for their ambitions and dreams, now with the unexpected pregnancy they would have to drop all of those stuffs and focus on something else. hearing news that are unexpected as this one is that not easy to plan for or to answer perse... one should also consider each others age, if it is on the right age and both are emotionally, mentally and financially prepared, there ain't no problems with not, but if not, its going to be difficult. thinking of positive things is different from making negative things go right..
one can say answers like this one easily but on the actual moment, its not that easy to say this things or let alone to think about it purely..
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Originally Posted by Dirky47
1. We already make our own family.
2. It's a blessing from God.
3. We are parents now!
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conceiving a kid doesn't ultimately label you as a family or a parent. there is so much more to it than just producing an offspring and believe you me, there are a lot of people out there who fails to be a family/parents.
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Originally Posted by Dirky47
Guys, better think before you commit.
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conceiving a kid is not just a guys responsibility, it is both the guy's and the girl's. if it was a mistake or an accident or a gift then it is both their mistake and accident to make right and the gift to be thankful and take care off...
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Originally Posted by crawler
Wow. So you mean, you're already set your mind and mentally ready about that stuff?
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setting one's mind for some situations like this (unless planned) is different from "it" actually happening. I mean saying and actually doing are 2 very different things..
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Originally Posted by crawler
Most man nowadays are only happy at first but there comes the time, they can no longer take hard responsibility. And whose the one that suffer at the end, its the child...
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Well, conceiving a child needs a man and a woman, if there would be some mistakes in the way of planning it or actually taking care of it, it doesn't necessarily mean that guys are the ones to blame... being a woman (whom is mostly labeled as the closer parent) doesn't take away the responsibility of being an actual parent...
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