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Old 02-18-2010, 11:50 PM
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Can you treat her/him as friend?

dear all members here,
I just wondering can you treat your ex-girlfriend / ex-boyfriend as a friend and keep in touch with her/him ?
 
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Old 02-19-2010, 12:24 AM
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I don't think so. i can't clear out past from my mind as I am a very emotional guy. So not so easy task for me.
 
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Old 02-19-2010, 12:29 AM
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No... I will not treat as friend...
 
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Old 02-19-2010, 12:35 AM
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Sure, why not? While I had my two sons living with me, my ex-wife would come to visit for a week or so and stayed with us. I had remarried by this time and my wife had no problems with the arrangement.

Saw no reason to deny the kids an opportunity to spend some time with their mom.
 
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Old 02-19-2010, 12:51 AM
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Really depends on how close you were. If it was love i would think it would be hard, but if it was just a short relationship it shouldn't be too hard. Two of my best friends are ex-girlfriends
 
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Old 02-19-2010, 01:46 AM
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yes..... as long as you put/keep in your mind that she's / he's not for you anymore(the ex-gf/bf) so limit yourself and become "Friends only"

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if you have partner, try to make her understand and get his/her trust, that you and your ex-partner are now friends and only friends
 
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Old 02-19-2010, 02:21 AM
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Absolutely YES. Most of my ex girlfriends are my friends. My current girlfriend knows my ex-girlfriend. They're even friends.

I think even if your past experience with your ex gf/bf is bad, you should still get to the point of your lives where you should wrap things up. Throw away the bad experience you had with each other and stay as friends for old time sake.
 
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Old 02-19-2010, 05:39 AM
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Yes because fast is fast and its better if you become friends so that in the future when you both cross your roads you can even say hi to him/her without any bitterness.
 
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Old 02-19-2010, 05:56 AM
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CReed your wife is far more understanding than any woman I have ever met. You should me very good to her.

Great thing for your children to all getting along together.
 
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Old 02-19-2010, 07:14 AM
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Yes, its better to be friends with your ex.
 
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Old 02-19-2010, 07:17 AM
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Absolutely. Just because a romantic relationship didn't work out, it doesn't mean that you can't establish a different type of relationship.
 
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Old 02-19-2010, 07:27 AM
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dear all members here,
I just wondering can you treat your ex-girlfriend / ex-boyfriend as a friend and keep in touch with her/him ?
Yes, there is exeptions, there is girlfriends that are really expetional but can't get a working relationship .. Then they become real friends.
 
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Old 02-19-2010, 08:02 AM
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I just wondering can you treat your ex-girlfriend / ex-boyfriend as a friend and keep in touch with her/him ?
I know it can be done, I've seen it happen. I never mastered this ability though.
 
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Old 02-19-2010, 10:05 AM
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Yes, they are all my friends. And still get in touch. Sometimes we hang out together with their current gfs.
 
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Old 02-19-2010, 10:19 AM
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dear all members here,
I just wondering can you treat your ex-girlfriend / ex-boyfriend as a friend and keep in touch with her/him ?
I wish i could be my ex-girlfriends friend but when she moved and never left me an address or new email address, i just gave up trying to locate her. (Don't want to be labeled as a stalker)

I do not want to get back together with her, but wanted to stay in touch in case i had some personal issue's and wanted a woman's advice. I know she would tell it like it is. lol


<---- just moved on and made new female friends.
 
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Old 02-19-2010, 10:55 AM
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Depends on the nature of the break up... if they broke up on good times then yes but if they broke up on bad terms then no.
 
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Old 02-19-2010, 09:42 PM
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Hi cReed, congratulation that you have such great wife who are totally accept your past and trust you.

I agreed with sbfc point of view, it's very much depends on how we break the relationship with our ex.
 
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Old 02-20-2010, 03:08 AM
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I can treat anyone a friend as long as he can treat me the same
 
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Old 02-20-2010, 05:02 AM
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i think yes,u can treat ur ex as a friend if u are really close to her and has good understanding with her
 
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Old 02-20-2010, 07:28 AM
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i probably won't beleive my wife will be a friend to an ex boyfrind either. if they'll be, then i'll let them but she should at least let me be a friend to my ex girlfriend
 
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