Snooks, I can agree with that statement. When I was younger I had zero self esteem and zero confidence in myself. So, I guess now that I am a confident person, etc the past taps me on the shoulder and it makes me stop and think.
The OP makes a good point though. It's sad that not everyone thinks or feels that way.
I usually feel angry when I see someone being attacked on a forum just because they asked a question that might have been answered in another thread that the attacker saw a few weeks ago. Perhaps the person is so new that they hadn't figured out how to use the search function yet.
Like it was said, you never know the reason that people make those kinds of posts. Either way, if the post wasn't deleted by a moderator then it must be allowed and there's no legitimate reason that any other forum member should be dogging on the person for it.
My dream is for this place to become an oasis of sorts. A place that people can come to and know that they will leave with a smile and maybe even learn a bit while they are here.
Your dream is reflected on everything you say. I know it will never be enough for you. It is good to have big ambitions. They work like a big flashlight in the dark. Wish men, don't believe they are wish, cause they know well that can become wisher. Just like loving is never enough. It's not that you are not graceful of what you have, it's about your love that can't ever be enough.
I hope one day a fairy will make all your dreams come true.