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08-23-2007, 09:21 AM
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how to deal with immature and demanding person..
any idea.. for iam lost dont know what to do..
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08-23-2007, 09:21 AM
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Empress™
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Patience. Lots of it.
Is this a client?
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08-23-2007, 09:24 AM
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v7n Mentor
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Ooh... that depends on how immature and how demanding. Usually I tell them to go away, but if I work with them, and they're not my boss, I let them know how I feel about their behavior. Politely, of course. That hasn't always given good results, but you can't do much else. If you tell them and the behavior continues all you can do is step away...
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08-23-2007, 09:43 AM
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Freakgeek
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It depends on what their relationship is to you I suppose. Are they a co-worker, family member, wife/girlfriend or husband/boyfriend, friend, acquaintence, client, boss?
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08-23-2007, 10:22 AM
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I agree with the others...what is your relationship with this person?
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08-23-2007, 10:28 AM
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Patience.. Or better approach him or her. Just try to understand him/her besides you are the one who is mature enough to understand immature people
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08-23-2007, 01:54 PM
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Have a huge patience and understanding to this person..just be cool and be nice always to immature and demanding people... But if i were you, just keep on communicating to this person coz communication can somehow establish rapport and it may lead to understanding each others differences..
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08-23-2007, 02:03 PM
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Screw patience, here's what you do.
Take a flashlight and shine it in their face. One of the big police ones. Tell that if they annoy you again you'll hit them upside the head with it.
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08-23-2007, 02:07 PM
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for me it's challenging!...
and sometimes we love person for what is he/her, so that we still admit their mistakes.
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08-23-2007, 07:11 PM
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Yes, what's your relationship to him/her?
In any case, I'd stop involved with them emotionally. Try to deal with him/her objectively. Nomrally when both parties are emotionally involved it gets worse... One has to cool down to deal with it somehow 
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08-23-2007, 07:16 PM
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"how do you deal with people who don't return to their threads...?"
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08-23-2007, 07:19 PM
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"How do you deal with people whose life doesn't revolve around F5-ing on v7n.com?" 
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08-23-2007, 07:21 PM
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Empress™
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F5? Pfft, that's basic. I use this. 
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08-23-2007, 07:23 PM
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v7n Mentor
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What a lame ass!
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08-23-2007, 07:37 PM
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Empress™
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I'm sneaky that way.
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08-24-2007, 05:18 AM
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dealing with a immature and demanding person is one of the hardest thing to do! especially if you're temper stated to heat up...the only thing you could is disappear and walk away to that person...and never make any conversation.
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08-24-2007, 06:21 AM
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A lot of patience is needed for an immature person..Though it s0unds funny..but d way to handle immature..is to be a mature one..^_^
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08-24-2007, 06:54 AM
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I usually tell them to shut up. It generally works. If they get angry I tell them to shut up again.
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08-24-2007, 06:59 AM
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a glass of cold water can do the trick.
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08-24-2007, 07:39 AM
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I don't deal with immature and demanding people to begin with. There are way too many mature and reasonable people around to be wasting my time with those energy suckers.
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