Absence of love kills - Page 10

digiweb · 10-17-2007, 01:50 AM

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Originally Posted by ezhel

...life is too short for you not to enjoy it.

Good news - you're a pretty healthy person.

Bad news - you're totally invalidating Bonnie's experience. If she could do that she wouldn't be posting about her pain.

digiweb · 10-17-2007, 02:03 AM

Bonnie - can I ask you some questions? Because there is hope in naming the problem. By identifying and naming the problem you can overcome it.

First q: Do you idealize or devalue your partners, if so, is it an intense, uncontrollable behavior or just a random thing?

mabel01 · 10-17-2007, 02:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Bonnie24

ok, I will trie not to

yesterday bought new drummer sticks - they are so cool, Mabel, what are your hobbies?

that's cool! I wanna learn to play drums

my hobbies? well most of the time I'm on the net.. haha! no time for such things.. but I do play guitar.. I play chess..(board games.. makes me bored!)

LOL!

read books on my spare time..

Bonnie24 · 10-17-2007, 03:15 AM

And one more stuff from me - nothing special, just...well, I dont know, just wanted to write something like this (white poem - not long

):

I am standing in the centre of the Universe catching heavy skydrops with my eyelids. I am not cold, I feel love. You don't know me yet, You are walking in the streets or may be You are standing in 5 steps from me now admiring the raindrops in your palms. Know, that my hearts beats only because You exist somewhere. I am dead and born at every sunrise, hundreds of looks exalt and subvert me daily, thousands of songs are trying to outstrip me to telll you....to tell you that I am in the centre of the Universe, am catching heavy skydrops and am waiting for You....I don't know You yet but I feel You are weak as a baby-born without me and You need me and for this I am ready to run through centures to the very centre of the Universe to catch salty heavy skydrops with our lips... You know where to find me and You will find me whatever it will cost You.

Bonnie24 · 10-17-2007, 03:17 AM

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Originally Posted by digiweb

Bonnie - you're not kidding? Because I think Mikey's right. Having a cat or dog is way better than all-consuming and negative solidarity. And pets never borrow the car.

oh, no, like an old spinster with cats....awful!

**Zap** · 10-17-2007, 03:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Zap

Sid And Nancy is the title of the movie. Basically, the story of Sid Vicious and the Sex Pistols.

Lots of sex, drugs and rock & roll, punk music style.

Good movie. I liked it.

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Originally Posted by Bonnie24

hey guys, i didnt know that here someone likes punk rock and is aware of Sid and stuff....cool, this is the GREATEST forum in the world!

I'd be totally surprised if I was the only one.

God Save The Queen

Bonnie24 · 10-17-2007, 03:23 AM

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Originally Posted by digiweb

Bonnie - can I ask you some questions? Because there is hope in naming the problem. By identifying and naming the problem you can overcome it.

First q: Do you idealize or devalue your partners, if so, is it an intense, uncontrollable behavior or just a random thing?

digiweb, well, good question, neither things, I just need to BE with someone...I dont idealize or devalue anyone, I take them the way they are, but when for some reason we go apart, I need to find someone else to be with cause if I don't I feel myself physically (and mentally) very bad - I have terrible headached, heartaches, etc and etc .... thats very weird and I dont know why it is so and as soon as I find someone - all these awful symptoms disappear (and its not the matter of sex or something like this - I need just to be with someone (but sex is always welcome of course - nothing bad about it

)

and thanks for trying to help me - I fel you are a really good person!

Bonnie24 · 10-17-2007, 03:25 AM

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Originally Posted by mabel01

that's cool! I wanna learn to play drums

my hobbies? well most of the time I'm on the net.. haha! no time for such things.. but I do play guitar.. I play chess..(board games.. makes me bored!)

LOL!

read books on my spare time..

cool!! and what kind of books? and how long do you play guitar? my first education - musical - guitar and what do you play?

Bonnie24 · 10-17-2007, 03:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Zap

I'd be totally surprised if I was the only one.

God Save The Queen

cool, Clash, Sex Pistols, the Stooges, Antiflag, Agnostic Front, Dead Kennedys, the Stranglers, etc????

**Zap** · 10-17-2007, 03:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Bonnie24

cool, Clash, Sex Pistols, the Stooges, Antiflag, Agnostic Front, Dead Kennedys, the Stranglers, etc????

I dabbled, more than went all out, but I loved the music of Sex Pistols and the subsequent Johnny Rotten projects (PIL).
The Clash and Joe Strummer, Big Audio Dynamite ... pretty much anything this grouping did was great!

Agnostic Front, DKs and the Stranglers, liked them a little bit, but not tons.

Bonnie24 · 10-17-2007, 03:31 AM

and guys, thank you very much, God help you to achieve everything you want - You reallly supported me and I feel better now!!!!! Thanks!!

Bonnie24 · 10-17-2007, 03:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Zap

I dabbled, more than went all out, but I loved the music of Sex Pistols and the subsequent Johnny Rotten projects (PIL).
The Clash and Joe Strummer, Big Audio Dynamite ... pretty much anything this grouping did was great!

Agnostic Front, DKs and the Stranglers, liked them a little bit, but not tons.

by the way how old are you if not a secret? cause very few people in our present world still listen to punk...

**Zap** · 10-17-2007, 03:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Bonnie24

by the way how old are you if not a secret? cause very few people in our present world still listen to punk...

I'll be 40 in February. And you?

Bonnie24 · 10-17-2007, 04:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Zap

I'll be 40 in February. And you?

cool, I will be 25 in May

mabel01 · 10-17-2007, 04:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Bonnie24

cool!! and what kind of books? and how long do you play guitar? my first education - musical - guitar and what do you play?

haha! I am not really good in guitar playing..

not that I can't play.. hehe.. not really good at it.. but can play a little.. just a LITTLE.

i read sydney sheldon's books..

StrongInTheArm · 10-17-2007, 04:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Atom

Do you suppose me viewing the below thread just prior to posting in this thread could have anything to do with my hallucination?

http://www.v7n.com/forums/forum-lobb...at-we-see.html

Yeah, Astro makes me crazy too (Just Joking).

In truth I cannot say if it was a hallucination or simply a miss-reading. In the thread you quoted above, Steven_D made a very interesting post that may offer a possibility.

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Originally Posted by Steven_D

it has been proven that when reading you do not see all letters only the word.

All your examples are a little off the original research, the research showed that if you took a word and jumbled up all the letters but left the first and last letters intact then you would have no trouble comprehending the word.

eg

the qicuk borwn fox jupemd oevr the lzay dog

by writing the words backwards etc it is not possible to just 'read' it as normal, at least that is my understanding.

Science has also proven that because we read from left to right, if you interrupt the line of the eye in your advertising / marketing / article then you loose 60% of comprehension. eg, having a heading that goes down instead of across.

I read his example sentence about the fox, with no problems, hardly noticing the mistakes. It is also possible to see what we are expecting to see instead of what our eyes actually see. I think it possible that you may just have miss-read/confused 'kills' and 'skill' or 'skills'. Looking at the words it seems an easy mistake to make, and transpositions of this nature are one of the most common of reading/typing mistakes.

To be honest I would not be concerned of an isolated incident. If you repeatedly made similar mistakes over a period of time, that would be concerning. But that has to be tempered by how much reading you do, because obviously the more you do the more mistakes you will make. If you remember all of those mistakes it could be misleading.

If you are making many such mistakes regularly over a period of time, it may simply be you need spectacles or a new lens prescription or a rest. If not the problem then it might be something worth checking with your doctor about.

Don't be concerned unless it is a recurring problem.

Bonnie24 · 10-17-2007, 05:16 AM

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Originally Posted by mabel01

haha! I am not really good in guitar playing..

not that I can't play.. hehe.. not really good at it.. but can play a little.. just a LITTLE.

i read sydney sheldon's books..

as they say in France "c'est pas grave"

Sydney Sheldon's books are very interesting, he has a real talent

whats your favorite story?

mabel01 · 10-17-2007, 05:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Bonnie24

as they say in France "c'est pas grave"

Sydney Sheldon's books are very interesting, he has a real talent

whats your favorite story?

yeah! he's really great! my favorites are, the naked face, are you afraid of the dark and tell me your dreams.. the rest of his novels are really interesting too.

**Zap** · 10-17-2007, 06:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Bonnie24

cool, I will be 25 in May

All that stuff (Sex Pistols, Clash) was before your time.

How did you come to take an interest in it?

Atom · 10-17-2007, 07:06 AM

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Originally Posted by StrongInTheArm

Yeah, Astro makes me crazy too (Just Joking).

In truth I cannot say if it was a hallucination or simply a miss-reading. In the thread you quoted above, Steven_D made a very interesting post that may offer a possibility.

I read his example sentence about the fox, with no problems, hardly noticing the mistakes. It is also possible to see what we are expecting to see instead of what our eyes actually see. I think it possible that you may just have miss-read/confused 'kills' and 'skill' or 'skills'. Looking at the words it seems an easy mistake to make, and transpositions of this nature are one of the most common of reading/typing mistakes.

To be honest I would not be concerned of an isolated incident. If you repeatedly made similar mistakes over a period of time, that would be concerning. But that has to be tempered by how much reading you do, because obviously the more you do the more mistakes you will make. If you remember all of those mistakes it could be misleading.

If you are making many such mistakes regularly over a period of time, it may simply be you need spectacles or a new lens prescription or a rest. If not the problem then it might be something worth checking with your doctor about.

Don't be concerned unless it is a recurring problem.

Great post. Ok let's assume it was a simple mistake and nonrecurrent. Next question: why was I so upset, accusing mods and author? I must be going crazy. It's all I can figure because I know that the mods don't just go around changing titles, and suspicion of author, well, that's just insane. hmm..

or .. it could be my temporary depressive disorder from Tramadol withdrawl just isn't over yet.