Absence of love kills - Page 9

Bonnie24 · #**161** (**permalink**) 10-16-2007, 04:20 AM

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Originally Posted by StrongInTheArm

Bonnie, as a matter of interest ...

When you started this thread did you spell the word 'kills' incorrectly as 'skills' and then edit it shortly after?

There has been some debate for various reasons and you can put the record straight as it were?

I'd love to know.

no, no, kills

Bonnie24 · #**162** (**permalink**) 10-16-2007, 04:25 AM

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Originally Posted by mabel01

Bonnie, have you been left alone by someone?

hi Mabel, no, never, I have a loving family, but all my life i have been dependent on "realtionships" - if I quit with dating a guy, I needed to find another one as soon as possible otherwise I felt myself very very bad, I had terrible headaches - its not the matter of sexual relationships - No, not at all, I just needed to BE with someone and this problem is still the same - as soon as I am single, I feel myself So bad that I can't eat, can;t stand from bed, I can't normally communicate with friends - i am almost dying and I want to figure out what the hell is happening with me???

**Cricket** · #**163** (**permalink**) 10-16-2007, 04:32 AM

Being serious here for a moment, a fear of being alone is often from low self confidence, feeling the need to be with someone, in order to feel good about yourself. The very best thing you could do for yourself, is to first learn to love who you are with or without someone.

mabel01 · #**164** (**permalink**) 10-16-2007, 04:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Bonnie24

hi Mabel, no, never, I have a loving family, but all my life i have been dependent on "realtionships" - if I quit with dating a guy, I needed to find another one as soon as possible otherwise I felt myself very very bad, I had terrible headaches - its not the matter of sexual relationships - No, not at all, I just needed to BE with someone and this problem is still the same - as soon as I am single, I feel myself So bad that I can't eat, can;t stand from bed, I can't normally communicate with friends - i am almost dying and I want to figure out what the hell is happening with me???

that's really somethin'.. you can't live without having someone..(a boyfriend)have you tried being surrounded with friends.. that can help..

Bonnie24 · #**165** (**permalink**) 10-16-2007, 04:54 AM

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Originally Posted by mabel01

that's really somethin'.. you can't live without having someone..(a boyfriend)have you tried being surrounded with friends.. that can help..

the problem is that I have lots of friends!!!! I dont want to consult a psychologist, cause I think its waste of time and huge amount of money....

mabel, thanks for anyway trying to help me!

Bonnie24 · #**166** (**permalink**) 10-16-2007, 04:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Cricket

Being serious here for a moment, a fear of being alone is often from low self confidence, feeling the need to be with someone, in order to feel good about yourself. The very best thing you could do for yourself, is to first learn to love who you are with or without someone.

thanks Cricket, may be you are right, i don't know

mabel01 · #**167** (**permalink**) 10-16-2007, 05:01 AM

yeah cricket is right. I think you should have to learn to love yourself, feel good about in what you are doing.. fight the urge of wanting someone who would always be on your side.. learn to be independent.

Atom · #**168** (**permalink**) 10-16-2007, 05:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Bonnie24

Atom, I am not looking online!!!!!! ...

Ok. I was wondering about that.

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Originally Posted by Bonnie24

I just wanted someone to help me figure out my attitude to life..and guys, thank you, you really cheered me up!

You're welcome, Bonnie.

**Cricket** · #**169** (**permalink**) 10-16-2007, 05:22 AM

The very moment you stop looking for a relationship, it will find you.

Bonnie24 · #**170** (**permalink**) 10-16-2007, 05:49 AM

ok, from this very moment I stop looking...official announcement!

mabel01 · #**171** (**permalink**) 10-16-2007, 05:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Bonnie24

ok, from this very moment I stop looking...official announcement!

haha! keep us posted, on your next move! don't die ok?

StrongInTheArm · #**172** (**permalink**) 10-16-2007, 05:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Bonnie24

no, no, kills

Thank you for clearing that up for me.

You know, now you will have endless time to pursue all of those things that interest you, like developing anti-gravity boots and spray on make-up! In some ways you are in an enviable position. What an exciting time to look forward to

**Zap** · #**173** (**permalink**) 10-16-2007, 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Zap

When I first entered this thread, I was reminded of this.

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Originally Posted by Atom

If that's a movie, I gotta see it. Looks good. Those are just the kind of movies I like .. based on real life

Sid And Nancy is the title of the movie. Basically, the story of Sid Vicious and the Sex Pistols.

Lots of sex, drugs and rock & roll, punk music style.

Good movie. I liked it.

Atom · #**174** (**permalink**) 10-16-2007, 08:30 PM

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Originally Posted by StrongInTheArm

Thank you for clearing that up for me. ...

Do you suppose me viewing the below thread just prior to posting in this thread could have anything to do with my hallucination?

http://www.v7n.com/forums/forum-lobb...at-we-see.html

Bonnie24 · #**175** (**permalink**) 10-17-2007, 12:35 AM

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Originally Posted by mabel01

haha! keep us posted, on your next move! don't die ok?

ok, I will trie not to

yesterday bought new drummer sticks - they are so cool, Mabel, what are your hobbies?

Bonnie24 · #**176** (**permalink**) 10-17-2007, 12:36 AM

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Originally Posted by StrongInTheArm

Thank you for clearing that up for me.

You know, now you will have endless time to pursue all of those things that interest you, like developing anti-gravity boots and spray on make-up! In some ways you are in an enviable position. What an exciting time to look forward to

yeah, may be.....but sometimes I really want to swim in the sea of tranquility

Bonnie24 · #**177** (**permalink**) 10-17-2007, 12:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Zap

Sid And Nancy is the title of the movie. Basically, the story of Sid Vicious and the Sex Pistols.

Lots of sex, drugs and rock & roll, punk music style.

Good movie. I liked it.

hey guys, i didnt know that here someone likes punk rock and is aware of Sid and stuff....cool, this is the GREATEST forum in the world!

digiweb · #**178** (**permalink**) 10-17-2007, 12:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Cricket

What scares me the most is that I get your jokes.

Walking on the beach and otherwise being everything a woman could want all in one sentence didn't give it away?

Oh wait you GOT his joke. Never mind :-)

digiweb · #**179** (**permalink**) 10-17-2007, 12:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Bonnie24

Mikey from your "advice" I feel like shooting myself from the gun - NEVER advise anything anyone!

Bonnie - you're not kidding? Because I think Mikey's right. Having a cat or dog is way better than all-consuming and negative solidarity. And pets never borrow the car.

digiweb · #**180** (**permalink**) 10-17-2007, 12:45 AM

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Originally Posted by John Scott

You're still working off yesterday's definition.

Are you going to tell me that the love of Romeo and Juliet that ended in both their deaths was a disorder?

There are plenty of psychologists who would make that conclusion. Beauty is not always Healthy.