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Originally Posted by StrongInTheArm
I believe in lust at first sight but that is something entirely different. For me I was somewhat hostile to someone, then became enchanted by her and then came lust and finally love. I suspect it is not so with the majority of people.
What about you, do you believe in love at first sight?
Recent research suggests that it does not exist.
According to new research, romance has very little do to with it. That "look" is all about sex and ego.
"It does seem to be a sort of narcissistic thing. People are attracted to people who are attracted to them," said Ben Jones in the Face Research Laboratory at the University of Aberdeen.
"It's really a very basic effect that we are all, at some level at least, aware of - which is that if you smile at people and you maintain eye contact, it makes you more attractive."
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Thanks for the insight S.I.T.A., lots of this I did not know.
Oh btw, I don't believe in love at the first sight myself, I believe in love at the second sighting. Meaning, I think love can start to formulate more after you've passed first base.
From what I remember:
1st Base: Getter her phone number and talking on the phone for hours.
2nd Base: Getting together with her for a date, and getting a kiss (a passionate one).
3rd Base: Alone with her somewhere kissing, hugging, really close to having sex but no intercourse.
4th Base: Is goal accomplished! Hoorah! He scores! She's sprung on the dillzy or you're sprung! Or maybe you're both sprung!
I don't know, I could be wrong -this love at first sight thing may be different for different people.
