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02-12-2008, 05:21 PM
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Why do humans kiss?
Why do humans kiss?
Her eyes are wide as they stare into yours. You wrap your arm around her waist and pull her in close. She touches your face and you lean in, tilt your head – to the right, of course – and your lips connect. The rushing sensation leaves you little room to wonder, “Why the hell am I doing this anyway?”
Of course, the simplest answer is that humans kiss because it just feels good. But there are people for whom this explanation isn’t quite sufficient. They formally study the anatomy and evolutionary history of kissing and call themselves philematologists.
So far, these kiss scientists haven’t conclusively explained how human smooching originated, but they’ve come up with a few theories, and they’ve mapped out how our biology is affected by a passionate lip-lock.
A big question is whether kissing is learned or instinctual. Some say it is a learned behavior, dating back to the days of our early human ancestors. Back then, mothers may have chewed food and passed it from their mouths into those of their toothless infants. Even after babies cut their teeth, mothers would continue to press their lips against their toddlers’ cheeks to comfort them.
Supporting the idea that kissing is learned rather than instinctual is the fact that not all humans kiss. Certain tribes around the world just don’t make out, anthropologists say. While 90 percent of humans actually do kiss, 10 percent have no idea what they’re missing.
Others believe kissing is indeed an instinctive behavior, and cite animals’ kissing-like behaviors as proof. While most animals rub noses with each other as a gesture of affection, others like to pucker up just like humans. Bonobos, for example, make up tons of excuses to swap some spit. They do it to make up after fights, to comfort each other, to develop social bonds, and sometimes for no clear reason at all – just like us.
Today, the most widely accepted theory of kissing is that humans do it because it helps us sniff out a quality mate. When our faces are close together, our pheromones “talk” – exchanging biological information about whether or not two people will make strong offspring. Women, for example, subconsciously prefer the scent of men whose genes for certain immune system proteins are different from their own. This kind of match could yield offspring with stronger immune systems, and better chances for survival.
Still, most people are satisfied with the explanation that humans kiss because it feels good. Our lips and tongues are packed with nerve endings, which help intensify all those dizzying sensations of being in love when we press our mouths to someone else’s. Experiencing such feelings doesn’t usually make us think too hard about why we kiss – instead, it drives us to find ways to do it more often.
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02-12-2008, 05:38 PM
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Originally Posted by BSGCORP
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I think that males kiss their female partners purely in hopes that it will get them some, otherwise, it's to pacify her for the sake of peaceful coexistence.
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02-12-2008, 06:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Atom
I think that males kiss their female partners purely in hopes that it will get them some, otherwise, it's to pacify her for the sake of peaceful coexistence.
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I sure hope that is not the case!
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02-12-2008, 06:18 PM
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Originally Posted by Julie
I sure hope that is not the case!
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I don't blame you.
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02-12-2008, 06:31 PM
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Men are such selfish pricks. You wouldn't believe it, Julie. It's terrible. I don't even dare reveal any more.
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02-12-2008, 06:34 PM
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Looks like I forgot the laughing smiley, oops. 
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02-12-2008, 06:39 PM
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i kiss with the hope of spreading herpes to men like atom.
*forgets the smiley on purpose*
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02-12-2008, 06:42 PM
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Originally Posted by kristeejo
i kiss with the hope of spreading herpes to men like atom.
*forgets the smiley on purpose*
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Liar, you love me. I have proof.
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02-12-2008, 06:49 PM
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Do you really have herpes?
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02-12-2008, 06:55 PM
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and the crabs too
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02-12-2008, 07:01 PM
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A prior g/f of mine gave me those in a time long ago, the day we broke up. Bitch. Oh well. I suppose I may have deserved it actually. Screw it I'm just glad I don't have to deal with any of that anymore.
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02-12-2008, 07:04 PM
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cause it leads to other things lol
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02-12-2008, 07:09 PM
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I tried to tell 'em, Steve. They'll apparently have none of it. 
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02-12-2008, 07:50 PM
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maybe purely instinctive.. animals didnt learn anything so maybe its the same case on humans..
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02-12-2008, 07:52 PM
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maybe purely instinctive.. animals didnt learn anything so maybe its the same case on humans.. coz im trying to think where it came from? i just wonder how the first people propagate without the act of kissing.. hmmmm
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02-12-2008, 08:07 PM
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Originally Posted by jowsefpirate
... i just wonder how the first people propagate without the act of kissing.. hmmmm
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Yeah, I think men were just a bunch of rapists probably. 
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02-12-2008, 08:12 PM
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Originally Posted by Julie
I sure hope that is not the case!
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Come on Julie. You mean you never heard the guy's defination of a kiss?
"upper persuasion before lower invasion"
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02-12-2008, 08:18 PM
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I think we got plentyo pig in us yet.
BTW have you seen some of this I-porn on the net lately? Some of it's like.. beyond belief! People sure are nutz.
Some of it's pretty good though. However I would not recommend anyone view this, of course.
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02-13-2008, 01:15 AM
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Originally Posted by Atom
BTW have you seen some of this I-porn on the net lately? Some of it's like.. beyond belief! People sure are nutz. 
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I-porn???
Is that like porn you have made yourself Atom? 
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02-13-2008, 01:27 AM
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