Has a Girl ever used you?

Sama3l. · #1 (**permalink**) 02-27-2008, 08:29 AM

because you own websites!? lol i broke up with my g/f the other day and this girl keeps texting me but its like flirty texting and she keeps asking me when i will design her band a website but at the same time trying to get in my pants.

you see i get free drinks at my local rock bar because i own the website for the pub and she asked the barmaid why i didnt pay for my drinks, and am sure peeps talk about me

now due to it. so has a girl ever used you for anything....

Ferre · #2 (**permalink**) 02-27-2008, 09:00 AM

So this girl wants to get in your pants, and you complain about it?

John Scott · #3 (**permalink**) 02-27-2008, 09:21 AM

I'm not a meat popsicle! I'm a human being damnit!

suzjor · #4 (**permalink**) 02-27-2008, 01:01 PM

After watching Superbad, I thought all guys wanted that??

Atom · #5 (**permalink**) 02-27-2008, 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Sama3l.

because you own websites!? lol i broke up with my g/f the other day and this girl keeps texting me but its like flirty texting and she keeps asking me when i will design her band a website but at the same time trying to get in my pants.

you see i get free drinks at my local rock bar because i own the website for the pub and she asked the barmaid why i didnt pay for my drinks, and am sure peeps talk about me

now due to it. so has a girl ever used you for anything....

Sounds like she wants something for nothing. I'd tell her right up front that I need to be paid in cash. I would do this mainly because it seems a proper policy if it's a biz, but I would be curious what her response would be.

poksa · #6 (**permalink**) 02-27-2008, 01:18 PM

It's cool man... there is no big deal with that. LOL

Atom · #7 (**permalink**) 02-27-2008, 01:25 PM

I'm the type of guy that would throw that at her right off the bat after she started coming on to me, basically to analyze her eyes, body language and her response after she heard it, as I would not be looking to get laid, I'd be looking for a companion. Now, if I was your age, it would be a different story.

Kryvast · #8 (**permalink**) 02-27-2008, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by poksa

It's cool man... there is no big deal with that. LOL

Yeah, because you like girl to get in your pants right?

poksa · #9 (**permalink**) 02-27-2008, 02:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Kryvast

Yeah, because you like girl to get in your pants right?

I think every man wants that... because it gives awesome feeling...

Sama3l. · #10 (**permalink**) 02-27-2008, 03:29 PM

i do want that but then to get used would hurt

mmmmm john meat popsicle ;0

**G10** · #11 (**permalink**) 02-27-2008, 03:34 PM

lol!

If a guy is cool with that, then they need to get some self-respect. If someone is using you for something they can get out of it and not because it's you, then you could just as well be anyone..

How the hell that builds up your self esteem beats me..

Not for me...

sem4u · #12 (**permalink**) 02-27-2008, 04:16 PM

Free drinks? A girl trying to get into your pants?

I need to head down to my local rock bar and see if they need any help with their websites

valwardon · #13 (**permalink**) 02-27-2008, 11:28 PM

Grr . Women can be evil at times . I have had alot of women use me for diffrent reasons

martyan · #14 (**permalink**) 02-28-2008, 01:31 AM

If you have that feeling that you are being used, I think it only says you are an egoist. The moment you will ret rid of the fear that somebody may use you you will start giving to people (to your girl in this situation), just think how unhappy she is desperately needing free drinks and your attention, btw can't you be more active yourself, don't waiting until SHE gets into your pants?

krahmaan · #15 (**permalink**) 02-28-2008, 02:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Sama3l.

because you own websites!? lol i broke up with my g/f the other day and this girl keeps texting me but its like flirty texting and she keeps asking me when i will design her band a website but at the same time trying to get in my pants.

Play the game player. Wipe those tears and play the game. You don't seem to know it, but you're lucky that she's even interested in you at all. Some guys can't even afford that luxury, so feel blessed.

You lucky bas**rd!

mit · #16 (**permalink**) 02-28-2008, 02:22 AM

Look at the history, Women always used Men.

jamaine12 · #17 (**permalink**) 02-28-2008, 02:31 AM

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Originally Posted by mit

Look at the history, Women always used Men.

Not all the time dude..Sometimes it's vice versa.

Cryxellis · #18 (**permalink**) 02-28-2008, 05:27 AM

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Originally Posted by mit

Look at the history, Women always used Men.

There are few, yes but not all of them.. come to think of it.
Men also used women and after that they dumb them as if
she's a disposable thing..

zeruel · #19 (**permalink**) 02-28-2008, 05:50 AM

Well, if the girl isn't that bad... And if she's way too hot and pretty...

lol

Sometimes, it really happens in a relationship.. And most of the time, it is because of the love you feel for that person that you just ignore the thing that he/she is using you..

Or maybe, it's not intentional...

poksa · #20 (**permalink**) 02-28-2008, 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by sem4u

Free drinks? A girl trying to get into your pants?

I need to head down to my local rock bar and see if they need any help with their websites

hmmm... Bro, I have an Idea to help those girls...

Create a simple banner like "Girls want to have customize web site for FREE!!!". then post it to your local BAR... I'm sure a bunch of Girls will grab that promotion...

But they must have to know your consequence first...